Person without an alert mind lives an inhuman life. There is no alternative; either you have an alert mind or you have a flirt mind. This thing has been kept a secret for all these years, so that human beings may not know the workings of the mind, so that some human beings can exploit other human beings.

Any human being, little human being, who dies for righteousness with the right consciousness and right spirit and who has an alert mind to die goes directly to God. Dying with an alert mind is going direct to God. Only people who have flirt minds will suffer. Both types of persons do the some thing. Man with an alert mind also puts on clothes, he eats, he sleeps, he does earthly things, but in the earthly things he never forgets the ether. The man of alert mind is bound, but knows the beyond. When you are bound and you know the beyond, then your mind is alert..

If you ever choose to flirt with your mind on this planet earth, you will never live a dignified life. Period. Full stop. Therefore, the mind is required to be caged, because it is given with the body. Something which is given with the body, must remain with the body. The only way the mind will remain with the body is when you direct it with your soul, and soul is when the whole soul situation is alert. A whole soul alert situation is when you know you do not belong here. You belong there and from there you are here. You are a visiting person. When you know you are visiting, you are not permanent. The moment you think you are permanent, you goof, because that is the lie you live. This earth is temporary. You come here to go. That is the problem.

Three things: this mind, this body, and this soul have been given to you. Why has it been given to you? It has been given to you to give you a chance so that you may experience, The great creativity of the Creator! This is the purpose. You have been created...you have been created by the Creator to experience His total creation. Among many, many planets, and many, many solar systems, and many, many universes, the planet earth is what they call the “hub." It is called the Planet of Experience. Everything which has been planted in this planet has to go through experience. Hey! Sometimes we do not remember why we have been created. If we live thirty years, we are supposed to have the experience of thirty years. If we live fifty years, we should experience for fifty years. If you live two years, we should have experience of two years. If we live one day we should have experience of one day. if we live one hundred years, we should have experience of one hundred years.

A friend of mine once said to me, "My wife is very wonderful; she has every merit, but she is not very beautiful." Her color was like my type color. You know, not very white. We are an African kind of people who are dark, baked by the sun! When he said that to me, he wanted to have a kind of sympathy. He was complaining that his parents have arranged his marriage, but you know he wanted to marry a girl who was very, very, very pale-looking, like powder. I just cracked up. I couldn't stop my laughter. After awhile he said, "What happened to you?" I said, "My God, do you sleep with your wife with your lights on?" He said, “No." I said, "Friend, what does it matter? Does it matter? Does it matter at night when you sleep with her whether she is dark or she is fair, and what is what? Or do you keep the lights on?" He said, "Who keeps the lights on?" I said, "If nobody keeps the lights on, what does it matter to you?” He said, "No, there is a kind of feeling." I said, "No, you have not married, you have never been married." He said, "No, no, I got married." I said, "No, you are prostituting with her. You are not married. You think you are married, and you think she is not beautiful." I said, "What is beauty? Define the beauty." I said, "Your parents married you because you were flirting with another girl. Right?" Now, I knew all about him.

Every woman thinks if she can grab this man, this man, she'll be powerful. No. No woman will ever be powerful by attaching herself to anything, because woman is only powerful when she is a woman. If she is anything else, she is weak. As a mother she has to give in to her children, as a wife she has to give in to her husband, as a secretary she has to give in to the boss, as this she has to give in to that, but when she is a woman, she is just she, and when she is she, he wants her very much. You understand that? You understand what I am saying? He wants what? He wants a she. He wants a she. He needs a she. She is the polarity of he. But when she’s not she, what the hell does he have to do with it? If a woman is going behind a man just for time pass then she is not she.

I am telling you what my consciousness and your consciousness speak to all of us. Most of the acts we do are not mature; they are immature acts because they come out of our flirtation. The worst state of mind is when flirtation and ego are combined. When flirtation and ego get together "bas (bs): That is it!" That is the last state of insanity, because one is flirting mind, second is ego. Ego won't let you even listen to the word of Truth. The combination of ego and flirt mind is good-bye ; it is a good-bye to any chance of divine consciousness. What is the problem with ego? A person with ego will never listen, or feel, or try to change if he or she is wrong. When you are right you are okay. When you are wrong and somebody tells you you are wrong, there is no way. In our life, God has created us to experience His creativity.

So if you are a person with flirt mind, Its time for you to change your character. Before that what is CHARACTER.

Character is a set of behavior traits that define what sort of person an individual is. It determines whether a person will effectively achieve goals, be forthright in dealing with others and will obey the laws and rules of the group. Although character is related to personality, it is not the same thing. Personality is primarily inborn traits, while character consists of learned behavior. Both may vary with the situation or circumstances.

Our attitudes and how you act toward other people often determines their desire to deal with you, both in business and in personal relationships.

If you show that you are an honest person with a great amount of integrity, others will trust you. People like to associate with those they feel are reliable and responsible. They appreciate it if you are fair-minded and understanding. People want to buy from an honest salesman, employers want to hire reliable workers, and people like friends they can count on and trust.

Obviously, a person with a reputation of being dishonest, uncaring or unreliable will not receive the same considerations in an interaction as someone with a good character. If you had a choice between buying from someone you knew was honest and someone who had a questionable reputation, you would probably pick the honest person, unless there was some other major factor influencing you.

Note that there are some people who seem to have good social character, but they are cleverly deceptive. People often tell about romantic relationships that turned sour once they found out the truth about the other person's character.

Now for changing what do you need :

YOU SHOULD HAVE A FOCUS IN YOUR MIND FOR THIS. Think that you are given with the most difficult task by your head. It’s a challenge for you to complete. In that case what you have to do is to have a positive mind that you can achieve it. Having a positive attitude toward doing difficult work is a good personal character trait and will move you toward achieving your goal. Likewise, being courageous and determined will help you succeed. Here the difficult task given to is TO CHANGE. Move towards with a focused mind. Surely you will succeed.

There is a hope even for the hopeless. The hopeless has been created by the One who is the hope of everybody. That is why I always tell you, "Keep up." That is the Maha Mantra, the great mantra. "Keep up."

GOOD LUCK.